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Our Top 4 Sex Toys Picks From Spectrum Boutique


As a gender-diverse individual, and more specifically, as a queer trans-man, it’s hard to find inclusive and affordable sex toys and information sources that are credible and not outdated. Which is why we here at Necessary Behavior are SUPER excited to be partnering with Spectrum Boutique! Spectrum Boutique is a sex-positive toy store that has a no-nonsense approach to sexuality and sexual education. They believe that fulfilling your sexual desires is a very important self-affirmation and human right. They welcome and cater to all identities, curiosities, and experience levels. If you’re a survivor of sexual assault, experimenting with toys and self pleasure could be a great way to get back to a healthy relationship with sex and can help mend the wounds left behind.
In addition to sex toys, Spectrum Boutique also has an extensive offering of literature about sex, genitals, and anything having to do with the two topics! Feel overwhelmed simply looking at the toys? Take a hot break, head over to the books section of their shop and educate yourself on kinks, orgasms during pregnancy, poly relationships, and more!

Our partnership with Spectrum Boutique means that if you buy ANYTHING from Spectrum going through this link: ( a percentage of your purchase goes toward keeping Necessary Behavior up and running, teaching individuals about consent and sex-positive education one sex toy purchase at a time! So be sure to use the link above to make any purchases!

Today I wanted to highlight some toys that can be enjoyed by any gender, or cater to specific gender-diverse identities, since boutiques like Spectrum don’t seem to exist en masse, and it’s about time gender-diverse individuals have an inclusive and flexible sex shop that thinks about us! So, without further ado- I bring you a list of the best gender inclusive and fun sex toys to delve into from Spectrum Boutique!

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The first toy I’d like to highlight is marketed toward FTM individuals who have been on testosterone, causing their clitoris to be enlarged. The “Buck-Off” prides itself on its soft texture and perfect length to use your whole hand when you want to ‘jack off’. It’s specifically pleasurable for folks who have gone on testosterone, as the clitoral growth is the main body part that gains pleasure from the suction-based stroker! Simply place the open end on the clitoris, make sure it starts suctioning, and buckle up for a handjob sensation.  It is compatible with hybrid and water-based lubricants, made from body-safe and phthalate-free elastomer, and a perfect addition to your pleasure collection for an affordable price! Here’s the link!

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Along the same lines of celebrating gender-diverse toys and sexual pleasure, I am enamored by the number of uses for the Bathmate Hercules Hydropump! This toy has many uses for many different bodies! I love to emphasize the sensational job of increasing blood flow (producing temporary enlargement) wherever it's applied! By using the pump on a penis, a vulva, or a breast, you're creating higher sensitivity in that area and exposing more delicate nerve endings. While this water pump is typically marketed as a "penis enlargement pump", there are so many other unique usages for single or couple play! The Hydropump certainly goes above and beyond. It is compatible with water based and hybrid lubricants, and can be used in the water as well. While quite pricey, and currently on back order- I can promise you this is not a purchase you will regret! Here’s the link!

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This is such a unique set of toys that I haven’t encountered before, and having them created by such an inclusive company, Spectrum, makes them even more exciting! Introducing Inspire Silicone Dilator Set! This dilation kit can be used to gradually strengthen the vagina and make internal stimulation more comfortable. With five different sizes, the smooth shapes are ergonomically curved for ease of use, say goodbye to those awful hand cramps!  The finger loop provides easy control during use, and can be used in combination with some small vibrators, ultimate pleasure is just a shopping cart away! This moderately priced item is a must-have for anyone looking to expand their horizons. Here’s the link!

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Next, we have the rechargeable Blush Noje G Slim Vibrator! It comes in 3 different colors, is waterproof, has 10 different physical sensations to offer, and is compatible with hybrid and water-based lubricants! A perfect tool for internal g-spot as well as external play. Angle the curve towards your belly, tug, twist and thrust for deep, rumbly g-spot action. Because this toy charges via magnetic cable, it's also fully waterproof! This is perfect pick for a first time vibe if your nervous to try anything advanced or for anyone in need of an inexpensive rechargeable toy that is incredibly useful in a lot of different situations. Here’s the link!

Spectrum Boutique and the toys above are great resources for you if you’re a survivor looking to get back to enjoying sex and pleasure. Sex isn’t taboo here at Necessary Behavior, neither is mending your relationship with it. We are here to help, as is Spectrum Boutique! If something caught your eye here or you’re simply curious, here’s the link to learn more and explore their page: A percentage of your purchase goes toward keeping Necessary Behavior up and running, teaching individuals about consent and sex-positive education one sex toy purchase at a time! So be sure to use the link above to make any purchases!

We love you, we hope that you love you, and we’re here to help. See you soon!

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